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What Have You Learned in 2012?

PBsplashNow that the flurry of New Years week goals and pitches are complete, I would like to share with you an annual process that I have been doing for over a decade.

The key to me about this process is simple. Most people relive and recreate the same fundamental experiences over and over and over again! The reason generally speaking is simply this we as human beings are not that good at actually learning from our past, and our unconscious embedded resistance patterns attract and recreate the same types of people, circumstances, situations and choices that we have been making for most of our lives.

The fundamental law of resistance is this: Resistance breeds resistance, What you resist persists, what you resist over time you become! Simply put until we deal with our resistance and the unconscious beliefs that trigger resistance we are trapped to repeat the same patterns over and over again.

The assessment form I am sharing with you here is a simple yet powerful process to actually learn from our experience of the past year and consciously APPLY those lessons to our life this year!

Truly learning from the past is one of the most powerful ways to break the patterns of resistance in our lives. So lets get to it!

Here is a webinar that steps you through each stage of the form although it is stepping the participants through a shorter version of the form. Download here.

The form can be downloaded here.

This process is powerful and it works. Take the time to make sure that 2011 is all that you want it to be. You deserve it!

I will be doing a live workshop version of this free (limited space so register ASAP!) on Monday Jan 7th, in Calgary at the Personal Best Building 6:30 – 10:00 p.m.

Grateful and Blessed

We have no idea what our vets and their families went through…take a moment please.

The One Way…NOT!

What The Hell Do You Mean One Way?

This rant is inspired by years of ongoing conversations with people who are certain that they have found THE path.  When in reality they have found a modality, a process, a set of distinctions that work for them.  Yahoo they have found something that works for them…but for goodness sakes PLEASE do not get stuck in that is the one, the only way.  It is not true, it is an unconscious, narrow and self righteous position.

Keep looking, do not bastardize what preceded your breakthrough and do not let it limit you on your next step of the journey, stay engaged, where you are today is only one step of your journey.

Recently I had the great pleasure of speaking at “Meet You in The Mountains” with Sandra Yancey of The Ewomen’s Network and there is an organization that GETS this, they collect speakers on ranges of topics, business, personal development, inspiration all with the same fundamental message, you must fully engage in your life, business and community.

So please even if you think (actually ESPECIALLY if you think) you have been there and done that…take another step…

Jay

Are Your Environments Getting in Your Way?

WARNING: DO NOT READ If you are stuck and do not want to change!

Over time “environment ALWAYS wins”

sit with it for a moment,

over time “environment ALWAYS wins”

If you are anything like me deep in your core there is a response that sounds and feels a bit like this “F*CK!!”

It resonates, I, you, we KNOW it is true…yet over and over again we attempt to create change without addressing our environments….hmmm

Lets be specific the environment you have created (primarily unconsciously) has gravity, it keeps pulling you back, pulling you back…pulling you back….you know what I mean. To break free of the GRAVITY of your environment takes fuel, Momentum, support and a destination. Think the Apollo space missions the VAST majority of that “Atlas” rocket was nothing more than fuel.

But we may have the rocket in front of the environment…Let’s back up a bit…don’t worry take a deep breath lets consider your environment includes YOUR:

Beliefs
Relationships (Look at these closely, consider
Primary
Kids
Co workers
Business partners
Friends
Mentors
SELF
Career
Physical body
Home
Office
Your car(s)
interior/exterior operating condition
Clothing/wardrobe
The food in your house/fridge
Your financial situation

All of these aspects of your environment YOU created (consciously or unconsciously) but if you are really, truly, completely committed to transforming in your life consider that “over time environment ALWAYS wins…what will each of these environments “Win” at??

Well here is a short list:
Maintaining the Status Quo
Triggering and reinforcing old beliefs some supportive some limiting
Reinforcing what you have believed you are worthy and capable of
Quite literally who you believe you are in the world and what you are capable of

So what have you been doing to influence your environment? What are you BEING and DOING to raise your vibration, transform your environment internally and externally?

Who have you been hanging out with?
What have you been learning?
Where have you been spending time?
How have you been moving your body?
What are you applying that is NEW in your world?

the truth is that you MUST strategically shift your environments to support the transformation you are in the midst of creating. If not “over time your OLD EXISTING ENVIRONMENTS WIN”

You know that it is true, you have experienced it before…more than once if we are to tell the truth

That is the exact reason that I designed “Creation Circles” to support you OVER TIME to influence, recreate and grow into new environments that support your vision.

What is a Creation Circle? Think personal development pod, conscious support group, high level mastermind and transformation all rolled into one!

Participating in a Creation Circle will transform your life.

Hang out with that statement for a moment or two…

Participating in a creation Circle will transform your life.

This is no bs marketing pitch, this is TRUTH, REALITY in fact a PROMISE (of course you must DO your part!)

So how can I be SO sure that Creation Circle’s can change your life? Simple because being a member of The Creator’s Code is one of the most powerful ways to impact and influence your environments over a SUSTAINED period of time.

It impacts the environment of:
Friendship
Support
Vision
Resources
Expereince
Internally
Beliefs
Personal vibration
Physical health

The structure of Creation Circle’s is designed in alignment with science of real and lasting change as researched and quantified in the amazing book Change or Die by Alan Deutchman. Which in a very brief nutshell can be summarized like this. 90 % of people fail (even with their LIFE on the line) to make the changes that they want in the absence of intervention and immersion in LONG TERM support (18 to 24 months).

So if you are ready to REALLY create what is most important in your life and reap the benefits of Being a Creator’s Code Member,

Live and face to face support from a group of people who stand for the best in you even when you do not see it yourself

Professionally lead and guided, experiential personal development processes that focus on the APPLICATION of what you know, you will LIVE it and create the RESULTS for real in your life!

Be a leader in your life, family, community and world, You are taking a stand as a CONSCIOUS Creator at a time that is VITAL in the worlds history.

So bring your greatness, your vision and your capacity to create join us, taking a stand for yourself and humanity!

The Samurai Game, Yahoo! Brand New Workshop Coming

I was recently nominated to the Association of Transformational Leaders of Southern California, I am the token Canadian 😉

There are a multitude of fascinating people in the group, and I had the opportunity to meet some amazing trainers, including some people who trained and lead training for our distant lineage Lifespring!

One of those people Keith, who has trained more senior trainers literally anyone I know, a gifted and talented man really fascinated me. Upon getting to know him better I discovered that he is leading an amazing advanced training called The Samurai Game. I had to find out more.

The best way it was described to me was that it is like a handful of the most powerful activities that we do in our courses (for those that know, think red/black and lifeboat) over a weekend and for those that are ready EVEN MORE POWERFUL!

Clearly I had to bring this experience to The Creator’s Code, so the date is booked June 28 – 30th Keith Bentz is coming to facilitate and we are going to play The Samurai game.

Space is VERY limited and seats are already going FAST! If you want to take you next step, engage with one of the most talented trainers in the world. You gotta get your seat NOW!

Description:
The Samurai Game® Workshop is a powerful opportunity to experience the way of the warrior as a path to deeper self-awareness and enlightenment.

In Japanese, the word samurai means “to serve.” The samurai lived and died by the code of bushido, “the way of the warrior.” For the true samurai, iron self-discipline, 100% commitment, inner calm in the face of danger, willingness to die rather than be dishonored, and unwavering loyalty to leader and team were a way of life. The Samurai Game® allows you to take on these qualities of the samurai warrior, and experience for yourself the way of the warrior as a path to deeper self-awareness and enlightenment.

At the same time, the Samurai Game® is an amazingly accurate mirror that allows you to see exactly how you live your everyday life. As the game unfolds, major life issues will come to the surface for you to confront and deal with. For some people, the main issue is commitment—the willingness to persevere, not give up, in the face of setbacks, difficulties, and even pain. For others, it’s honesty and integrity—the courage to speak the truth, even when speaking the truth means the possibility of rejection or becoming an outcast. For others, what surfaces is the struggle between cowardice—giving in to fear—and courage, the willingness to risk, for what you believe in. And for still others, the issue brought up by the game is trust—trust in yourself, trust in other people, trust in life itself. The list of major life issues that may surface in the game is endless, since the game is simply a mirror. But you can count on being challenged to face up to yourself in a deep and meaningful way.

Another challenge in the Samurai Game® for many people is the challenge of (symbolically) facing death. As you confront the possibility of dying in battle, you have an opportunity to contemplate the meaning of your life—and to face up to how brief this lifetime really is. For many participants, this is a chance to re-evaluate their priorities, and to gain a new level of clarity about what really matters.

The Samurai Game® is also an exercise in leadership and teamwork. Throughout the game, you will be presented with opportunities to lead—and opportunities to surrender completely to the leadership of others. The game will test you, and expose for you to see clearly your strengths and weaknesses as a leader and as a member of the team.

Participation in the Samurai Game® demands a high level of personal commitment and willingness to participate. Playing the game does not, however, require a high level of physical fitness or physical contact. Men and women from 18 to 80 years old, from all walks of life, have participated fully and created tremendous value in the Samurai Game®. As with any experiential process, the value you create will depend entirely on your willingness to participate fully and face up to yourself honestly.

The Samurai Game® was created by George Leonard. George was a founding member and former president of Esalen Institute. He held the rank of 5th Degree Black Belt in the Japanese martial art of Aikido and authored twelve books including: Mastery, The Ultimate Athlete, Education & Ecstasy, The Way of Aikido, The Silent Pulse, and (with Michael Murphy) The Life We Are Given. The Samurai Game® is now used globally in classes, seminars and corporate retreats, and has served hundreds of thousands of people.

The Samurai Game® Workshop will be led by Keith Bentz. Keith began his career teaching at the university level, doing undergraduate and graduate work at Stanford University, and teaching philosophy and literature at Stanford and Boston Universities. Keith has worked in the field of transformational education since 1980. From 1991 to 2008, he lived and worked in Asia, leading trainings in Japan, Hong Kong, Taiwan, Mainland China, Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia, and the Philippines. He has also led trainings for participants in the US, England, Holland, Russia, Mexico, Chile, and Argentina. Keith has personally assisted more than 60,000 men and women to live more effective, committed, and fulfilling lives. He is personally certified by George Leonard to lead the Samurai Game®.