Archive for Life and Random Thoughts – Page 7

An Adventure with Wyatt

Wyatt Being Brave!

Last week while getting ready for my trip to Orlando to speak for Marco Kozlowski, I had a fleeting thought…wouldn’t it be cool if Wyatt came with em and we could have a father and son adventure.

Then I got thinking about the mechanics, timing and dismissed it.  Well Cory and I discussed it the night before I was to leave and 2 hours on the phone with a super helpful Westjet rep, Wyatt and I were off to Orlando for an adventure!!  I am not sure who was more excited me or Wyatt.

We were off to see Lego Land Florida, Wyatt is Lego fixated these days.  So off we go, Wyatt is fantastic, I speak and then I discover that Lego Land is not even open yet!! Still under construction!! WTF?? In my excitement I totally did not see that on the website, Crap! (and other words!)

Wyatt totally coped well with the news, we hit the lego store downtown Disney instead (in full Spiderman gear).  Then off to Harry Potters world which by the way was pretty amazing.

Some highlights:

Wyatt was super brave on the Harry Potter ride (there was a junior marine on our ride who was covering his eyes but not Wyatt!)

We ate Gator bites (deep fried Alligator, yum!)

Wyatt can swim/dog paddle almost 20 feet!

Wyatt had great conversations with BOTH Captain America and Spiderman

Plus much much more.

One of the cutest things was when Wyatt was shopping for his Magic Wand and he takes the Harry Potter wand, flings it around a bit and then says “Dad, this one is broken, it does not have the magic in it”  Which made me smile to say the least, but the big lesson for me is that I sometimes forget he is still only 5 years old! He is so smart and mature most of the time that I simply think of him as a little adult.  But what a great reminder, “Dad this wand is broken”.  Ah the beauty of imagination and possibility.

Well I hope that Wyatt remembers this trip as fondly as I will.  A great adventure, great quality time with my oldest and a memory I will treasure for the rest of my life!

 

What is Your Ice Cream?

I was working with a client Kelli Harker of Soul Reflection Inc. this morning who is launching a very cool contest (Win a $5000 shopping trip to New York!) the name of the contest is “Say YES to Yourself”.

I love the grounding, I love the stand and it reminded me of a very well done add by Mercedes Benz that was done a few years ago.  Watch it, and then please reply in answer to “What is YOUR ice cream?”

It is only 30 seconds but it poses a vitally important question.

[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tzbZ14KHAoI]

 

Business Model’s That are EASY!!

 

 

As most of you know teaching my boys entrepreneurship I view as one of my most significant jobs as a parent.  Wyatt and I have been testing businesses, having meetings, we created his “Business Idea” book.  I love feeding his brilliant ideas, some of them include:

 

 

  • Lemonade stand
  • Recycling business (collecting bottles and cans)
  • Professional video game player (I am not so keen on this one, but he thinks it is brilliant)
  • Sell his old toys
  • Create an “Art Stand” draw pictures of people. If you need a stick drawing of you and your family Wyatt is taking commissions : )
  • A massage business (he gives a wicked massage!)
  • A cleaning business

All of these things ideas I have been pleased with not necessarily for the quality of the idea, but because Wyatt has ideas, he is willing to try different things I am thrilled!!

By the way I want to plug a fantastic book,  “Young Bucks, How To Raise A Future Millionaire” By Troy Dunn a self made millionaire who had an amazing Dad who supported him to become financially free and he is passing on his wisdom and experience to his kids and yours if you read and apply the ideas!

http://www.amazon.ca/Young-Bucks-Raise-Future-Millionaire/dp/0785221859

Now the purpose of this post is to acknowledge the simplicity and brilliance of kids and specifically my oldest Wyatt.

Last week Wyatt shared that he has a new business idea, and that is he is going to look around the house and pick up money he finds.  Now this at first seems to me to be kind of cute (that is until I cannot find change to wash my cars!)

So Wyatt, has discovered all the little baskets and trays that keys and change get dropped off into throughout the house and is soon walking around the house holding a huge zip lock bag full of change asking me to feel how heavy it is because of ALL his $$$ money.

So far, so good…cute.

Now this is where it gets interesting last week Wyatt is talking to Cory while she is doing laundry and he watches Cory pull money out of pocket after pocket after pocket.

Shortly after Wyatt announces to Cory that his new business is “Taking the money out of the pockets before they are washed”  and that Cory from this point forward is to call him prior to washing clothes so that he can do his business.

Now when Cory first told me about this honestly my first reaction was “That little s*&%” he does not want to do the REAL work of some of his other business ideas” Then my old Saskatchewan conditioning goes to “That is Lazy!”  Which whenever that thought hits me I know that is a RED FLAG of epic proportions.  For years I have worked on ease and flow and have done my best to release the old belief of “It has to be hard to be good”  clearly it still holds some real estate in my belief system.

I also have a mission as a parent to raise “conscious, independent contributing member of society” not an entitled, self righteous, dependent burden on society.  Thus I want my boys to be WILLING to work hard, yet wise enough to know that it is not necessary.

Back to the point; after my initial reaction of that is too easy and potentially lazy…YIKES my body and beliefs react even as I write that!!

After more thought I came to really appreciate the beauty and simplicity of Wyatt’s new business.  He has mastered in one simple model many of the aspects of business that I have worked far to hard at for far to long.  Think about it for a moment. He has the following going for him.

1) He is placing himself precisely where the cash is, literally emptying the pockets!

2) He is taking advantage of something that is happening anyway, Cory washes clothes on a regular basis and he has Cory calling him when there is an income opportunity!

3) He is accessing money that we do not even realize is there and it is now his.

The more I think about, timing, location and support I love his business model.

Well done Wyatt, I love you and I am proud of you!

 

Launching the New…Letting Go of The Old

 

“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.” – Lao Tzu

As summer comes to an end and I feel the energy shifting to “ok, lets get back at it” here in the office and with clients from all over I am feeling very excited, things are changing, at times it feels slowly and at times too fast…like there is not enough time to get everything done.

So I thought I would share with you some of the highlights of what I am most exited about in my life and business:

  • Instigating a global movement of Conscious Creators called “The Creator’s Code”
  • On Septenber 9 – 11 I am delivering the first “Gift” program in the US.  Bill Walsh and Powerteam International are hosting the program in Chicago (BIG Thank you Bill, I really appreciate it!)  This is a milestone for me, Personal Best and our new brand The Creator’s Code.
  • The Gift is a brand new 3 day program using some of the core Personal Best Concepts and many new approaches, concepts and modalities will help you to become a “Conscious Creator” by mastering the direction of your energy and emotions, committing to a mission larger than self, and mastering money once and for all.
  • The launch of the our new transformational application and integration program “Creation Circles”
  • Training a group of talented and amazing people to be Creation Circle Leaders (If you are a coach/facilitator and are interested in beta testing with us come find out more on Sept 20th in Calgary)
  • Working with amazing Joint Venture Partners like Jo-Anne Vacing of the eWomen network, I will be providing FREE one on one coaching at their Meet You in The Mountains event Sept 30 – Oct 2.  With my regular rate of $500 an hour, some time with me could pay for your entire registration cost! If you are an entrepreneur in Alberta check out the event!
  • We have booked Hay House best selling author Greg Braden for a speaking event in 2012 which will be fantastic! If you are a fan be sure to pre purchase VIP tickets ASAP
  • The launch of my new book and at home study program “The Creator’s Code”
  • Speaking on joint venture partners stages worldwide

What I am letting go of to make space for the new:

  • The Personal Best brand
  • Old methods of attracting clients
  • Being geographically rooted only in (Alberta/western Canada) including:
    • Clients
    • Staff
    • Business partners
    • Even living here in Canada full time, I am about done with long winters ; )
  • The idea that “in person is best”
  • Old methods of filtering and training facilitators
  • Support structures that do not fulfill core needs
  • Anything “Low Level”
    • Drama
    • Mechanics
    • Relationships
    • Time wasters (TV/Facebook/surfing)
    • Marketing

All of this and more is in process, on the way and will be the way of my world in 2012. If creating your world in a more conscious and deliberate manner is of interest to you then give us a call and find out how you can participate and benefit by living The Creator’s Code”

I look forward to being of service and co creating something AMAZING!

Jay

 

Mindjet Catalyst: The 12 Pillars of The Creator’s Code

Mindjet Catalyst: The 12 Pillars.

Here is the updated version of the code.  Please check it out I would love your feedback.

https://catalyst.mindjet.com/publish/view?id=c8dad9b77d639c05dbfee3950080d97a4d696e64