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My MOST Important Month This Year!

frog_waterPillar 2 “I Create MORE Than I Consume” is on.  I for one am super excited about it and while working on myself and my business from the perspective of Pillar 1 “Personal Accountability”  I have gained some insights that have me HIGHLY MOTIVATED!  I am dedicating myself to a conscious creation RESET.  Want to join me?

I have spent the last 2 years developing content, systems and process for our new brand The Creator’s Code.  My output has been stellar in terms of content creation.  BUT I have been out of balance, I have consumed FAR too much time, money, resources in the “Creation” mode and in taking 3 steps back to evaluate, in fact this creation process has actually become more of a CONSUMPTION process.  UGGGG, that feels like a kick to the… to the… lets say solar plexus.

What is fascinating to me is the subtle at least to me way that some of my greatest acts of creation of turned into unconscious act of consumption.

So my question to myself is “How the hell did that happen?”

It feels a bit like the story of the frog and the boiling water. If you toss a frog into boiling water it jumps out and saves it life…makes sense BUT if you put a from into nice and comfortable lukewarm water and slowly but surely turn temperature. One or two degrees at a time the frog remains comfortable…after all it is just a small and subtle change and remains in water until it is boiled to death.

So the truth is I have been sitting comfortable in creation mode, which I love and have let myself slip, a couple of degrees at a time into consumption mode.  In hindsight I see some of the key decisions and framing that lead to this result…but at the time I was oblivious.

It makes me wonder, how many of you currently have a life area, business, relationship, creative project that started as creation but has slipped into consumption? If you are wondering if this is true ask yourself these questions, I know that they would have helped me to recognize when the “HEAT” was being turned up.

  1. Are you in resistance to…
    1. Working on the project
    2. Completion
    3. Engaging and accepting specific types of support
    4. My normal routines
    5. Doing that which will have the GREATEST positive impact
  2. Do you have specific results that are normally clockwork that are suffering?
    1. Self care routines
    2. Financial results
    3. Time with family
  3. Are you managing low levels of negative emotions?
    1. Frustration
    2. Sadness
    3. Confusion
    4. Disappointment
  4. Are you managing incompletes?
    1. Taxes
    2. Correspondence
    3. House cleaning/maintenance
  5. Relationship strain
    1. Not seeing the people you care about most
    2. Not being PRESENT with people you love when you a re with them
    3. Changes in sexual intimacy
    4. Drama with family
    5. Undefined distance

If you said responded yes to 3 or more of the questions above you may have shifted into consumption mode and need a RESET.  When it comes to creating a reset the faster the better and we have collected some fantastic people, tools and experiences to get you back on track THIS MONTH.

One of the most powerful experiences that we offer at The Creator’s Code is “The Accountability Intensive” weekend which is the experiential version of my bestselling book “Reframe Your Blame” it is happening this weekend in Edmonton. Email lance@creatorscode.com to secure your seat.

Conscious Creation, here we come.

PS: I was going to share this with you later but seats are going so fast that I think it will be full in a day or 2.  I am bringing “Loral Langemeier The Millionaire Maker” to Calgary on February 13th.  We just went our first email about it and we are at 115 people and the venue only holds 150 so grab your free seat FAST!

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The Power of Practice

Image 7Happy New Year to you and yours!  Here we are January again and we are focusing on Pillar One of The Creator’s Code Personal Accountability.
So this is just a short note to invite you to a Google Hangout today, where I will be interviewed my by friend Lisa Engles on her show The Power of Practice.
The episode is called “How To Use Personal Accountability To Supercharge Your New Years Resolutions” 
Join LIsa and I on Google Hangouts by clicking here.
Lisa’s description of the show:
What if you could dump years of shame, blame and guilt and finally claim the health, wealth and happiness you desire and deserve in 2014?
Just about every personal development coach will tell you that if you really want to experience a quantum leap, you need to be personal accountability.In this episode of The Power of Practice, I’ll be interviewing Jay Fiset,  bestselling author of Reframe Your Blame: How to Be Personally Accountable.  Jay will blast the myths of accountability and share how you can harness personal accountability to supercharge your New Years Resolutions.
It is only 20 minutes, it will be a ton of fun and a GREAT way to start 2014!
Jay
PS: I know formatting is a bit odd on this post, it seems to be something is up with wordpress.  Come watch the interview anyway ; )

I know, I know, last minute preparations, gifts, family calls, play dates for kids, cleaning up things that MUST be done in 2013.  It can be difficult to raise our heads and create REAL VISION for our lives in the upcoming year.

So I have a gift for you, one of the most important in the universe:

  • Time for YOU
  • Time to evaluate the year that has just been
  • Time to CONSCIOUSLY set intention and create vision for your next year
  • Time to interpret and apply the key lessons of your life
  • Time to make sure that those recurring patterns that you are done with DO NOT SHOW UP IN 2014!

This gift is a process that I have been doing each and every year for over 20 years and I know that is has been fundamental in increasing my willingness to risk, my willingness to  learn from my mistakes and REALLY leverage my wins.

The Annual Assessment..I know killer title, (my friend Kerrianne would totally make fun of me)  but don’t let the name fool you it is a powerful process that I view as one of the most important rituals of my life.

The key to me about this process is simple.

Most people relive and recreate the same fundamental experiences over and over and over again! The reason generally speaking is simply this we as human beings are not that good at actually learning from our past, and our unconscious embedded resistance patterns attract and recreate the same types of people, circumstances, situations and choices that we have been making for most of our lives.

The fundamental law of resistance is this: Resistance breeds resistance, What you resist persists, what you resist over time you become! Simply put until we deal with our resistance and the unconscious beliefs that trigger resistance we are trapped to repeat the same patterns over and over again.

My gift and invitation to  you here is a simple yet powerful process to actually learn from your experience of the past year and consciously APPLY those lessons to your life this year!

Truly learning from the past is one of the most powerful ways to break the patterns of resistance in our lives. So lets get to it!

This year I am doing a free seminar on google hangouts that will share the process. The event is on boxing day evening  and it steps you through each step and stage of my annual ritual.

Register here.

This process is powerful and it works. Take the time to make sure that 2014 is all that you want it to be. You deserve it!

PS: The Consciously Creating Christmas Contest is on now, $25,000 in prizes and it is super easy and fun to play!  Check it out here.  http://thecreatorscode.kajabi.com/fe/35496-how-to-play

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Christmas Consumption or Conscious Creation?

Black Friday…Cyber Monday, not my favorite days of the year.

First big snowstorm in Calgary, actually most of Alberta, which is always one of my favorite days of the year.  I LOVE snow days!

Here is a great idea, instead of following the herd and shopping how about stay home, focus on you, your life and what you want to CREATE, for 2014 for your family and your world!

So we can up with a special offer for anyone who is dedicated to creating their BEST YEAR EVER in 2014!!

Check out the “12 Pillars of Creation Home Study Course” on special till Midnight tonight!

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The feedback from this program has been OUTSTANDING!

Scoot over to this page to see what people are saying.

To consciously creating your future!

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The Gift, Questions & Answers

574674_463407837013566_1249714812_nI am really excited for tonight!

Because tonight I get answer questions about The Creator’s Code outstanding introductory program “The Gift”.

This month we have a packed schedule virtually from coast to coast in Canada.  Kelowna BC, Halifax, NS and Calgary AB.

Some of the questions that have been posted that I will be answering:

  • What makes The Gift different from other programs?
  • What are the common results that participants create?
  • I am most interested in building my business, will this help or is it all touchy feely?
  • I have done weekends in the past and fallen flat after…Is there support after the program?

Please join us for tonights live webinar Registration is at this link :

https://www1.gotomeeting.com/register/933568864

What would YOU like to know about The Gift? Ask your questions in the comments below and I will answer as many as I can in the hour we have together!

Looking forward to being of service!

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