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Are You a Coach “Wanna Be” or Coach “Breaking Free”?

This is a question that every coach in training, every coach who is “slowly moving” into the coaching domain and every person calling themselves a coach who is not actually at a sustainable level or is not on track to being sustainable must ask themselves.

There are some harsh truths that must be told about the coaching industry that are not being talked about enough.

1) MOST coaches are starving, median income is 25,000 +/- and average income of 48,000
2) Most coaches are “stuck” in a flawed business model called “Time for Money” and even if you “succeed” you are still stuck with significant demands on your time and significant limits on your income and freedom.
3) Traditional business approaches do NOT work for coaches, think about it, one of the most intimate, transparent and authentic relationships under the sun. Traditional “selling” simply does not fit, anyone with a clue can sense structured scarcity, and it does not lead to trust and authenticity.
4) The gold rush and the coaching industry have some strong similarities more people made money selling shovels and supplies than people made finding gold. In the coaching world more people are making money selling shovels (tools, tactics, certifications, strategies, sales funnels, product launches) than there are coaches making great money actually coaching front line clients.

Not telling the truth about these issues and figuring out how YOU will address them in your coaching and training business will definitely keep you a coach “wanna be.”

So what does it really take to thrive in the coaching industry? What does it take to be a coach “breaking free?”

Well that is the $64,000 question, which if answered properly would be about a $15,000 raise for the average coach ; )

While I have had reasonable long term success in this field, been at it 25 years, the last decade have averaged strong 7 figures, I still do not purport to have the answers to this complex question. That being said there are a few factors that have really supported me and other coaches with as well.

The fundamentals of breaking free.

There are 5 fundamental steps that each coach must go through.

1) Commitment: Get all in or all out, half assed does NOT work in this business
2) Support: personal, and professional including BUSINESS structure/design
3) Develop or buy a REAL business model: It MUST fully integrate all 6 elements.
a. Lead Generation
b. Conversion
c. Delivery
d. Continuity
e. Integrated Product Suite
f. Viral Coefficient
4) Systems: Technology and automated processes at EVERY step and stage of the business model
5) Connect & Collect: Contribute value, build relationships, ask for the sale and count the money!

Lets be clear that entire books have been and will continue to be written about each and every aspect of these 5 stages. It is an unbelievable amount to successfully navigate. The truth is that the vast majority of coaches do not have the context or bandwidth to actually learn integrate and apply ALL of it.

It is overwhelming when you start looking at it. Which is part of why so many coaches struggle with what seems like a never ending learning curve. It is also why so many cope by just settling for the old routine which seems like it ‘SHOULD” work which is, “I don’t want some big practice, I just need a few clients that will replace my old job income” and this framing keeps them from building a business that actually works, and keeps them perpetually hunting for “Just a few more clients” and one more certification that will make my practice complete.

If the post resonated with you and require more support, or perhaps you have found yourself thinking yourself “I wish there was a way for me to just focus on what I love, the coaching, the facilitating, the process of actually being in service to people, without ALL the STUFF” then I have an offer of free support for you.

The following link will take you to a free video training that outlines more details about the 6 elements of a business model and much more.

http://thecreatorscode.kajabi.com/fe/24298-learn-the-4s-of-business-success

In the coming weeks I will be blogging much more about the keys to creating coaching and training businesses that actually work. Opt in at the above link for more support.

Jay

Getting Your Needs Met


As I was working on the manual for Pillar 7 of The Creator’s Code “I accept and understand my needs and I get them met so I can create from a clean clear space”.

I was again moved by how deep and significant this pillar is…and how we as human beings have the capacity to justify, settle or otherwise diminish our needs.

Now I need to be clear that over the past 25 years I have worked with 10’s of thousands of people on this topic and I feel qualified to say, the VAST majority of people are not even close to having their needs met.

NOTE: If you question that take a trip to the mall and watch the shopping zombies attempt to get their needs met at “The Gap”.

Now at our core each of us is aware of what this means personally in our own life. You know those nagging feelings that something is missing, or that our job is not fulfilling or that our relationships are not meeting all of our needs, love, intimacy, connection, sex…whatever it is. (I know, I know run on sentence, but I like how it flowed)

Anyway back to the point, the great reminder I got was that I could be more compassionate, accepting and open to the “craziness” of the people in my life and in the world.

The truth is they are in a battle to get their needs met (primarily unconscious), and for the most part are NOT SUCCEEDING!

This is why Pillar 7 is so vitally important to assisting people to create what they desire and deserve.

So to support you to lets dissect the 3 prime elements of the pillar 7
“I accept and understand my needs and I get them met so I can create from a clean clear space”

Three Key Elements
1) Acceptance: you have needs, you almost certainly have deficient needs, and the faster you tell the truth about it the easier it will be to create what you desire and deserve in your life.

2) Understand: What the hell are they REALLY? Why do some of my needs not make any freaking sense (think of the need for self sabotage)?? The truth is they do actually make sense, NOT from a conscious thought perspective, but always from a belief system/wiring perspective. Here is a link to a program I did on this topic, that was part of a 12 webinar series, you can access it here for FREE!

3) Now who specifically must I be , what SPECIFICALLY must I do, and what specifically must I have to fulfill those needs. INCLUDING A REAL TANGIBLE ACTION PLAN.

When you put these three things together a small miracle happens, all of the indirect, covert, and ineffective attempts at getting your needs met fall away and you are left with something amazing. You are left with an abundance of energy (it frees up all the old misdirected energy) and the experience of fulfillment.

Enjoy 🙂

Please post your thoughts and experiences below.

Jay

For more information about how you can get your needs met in clean clear ways check out The Creator’s Code.

All Out War

I have come to believe that there is an all out war being waged that most of us are completely unaware of.

It is costing you your, joy, happiness, wealth, health and happiness.

Watch the video it will be worth your couple of minutes.

Jay

 

Holding WHO Accountable

The following video is a powerful distinction between keeping agreement and personal accountability, I believe that there is a “Myth” that runs rampant in coaching about holding people accountable. Understanding this distinction will simplify your life, increase your capacity to create and support you to direct your energy more powerfully!

The Wound of Personal Development

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This is a topic that most people in the personal development and transformation world do not really want to talk about. The implications are scary…is what I do truly of value? Do I make as much of a difference as I would like to believe? What happens with my clients after the programs? Take a couple of minutes to watch this video and please leave a comment if you have ever experienced anything like this.